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Selected Thinking of You Poems
Love PoemsWhen You Are Old
When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;
How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;
And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.
Yeats imagines a future moment when the beloved remembers the one person who loved her deeper self. It is both a love poem and a memory poem. Enduring love, memory, aging, regret, and inner beauty. Reflective, wistful, and haunting. It supports classic thinking of you poems because its emotional force comes from remembrance over time.
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Song to Celia
Drink to me only with thine eyes,
And I will pledge with mine;
Or leave a kiss but in the cup,
And I’ll not look for wine.
The thirst that from the soul doth rise
Doth ask a drink divine;
But might I of Jove’s nectar sup,
I would not change for thine.
I sent thee late a rosy wreath,
Not so much honoring thee
As giving it a hope that there
It could not withered be;
But thou thereon didst only breathe,
And sent’st it back to me;
Since when it grows, and smells, I swear,
Not of itself but thee.
The poem turns eye contact, a cup, and a returned wreath into signs of love. The beloved stays present in ordinary objects. Romance, admiration, memory, beauty, and symbolic gifts. Elegant, affectionate, and charming. This works for thinking of you poems for cards because it feels polished and timeless. Read this poem as a message shaped by memory rather than a direct announcement. Its power comes from what remains unsaid as much as from what is spoken.
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If Thou Must Love Me
If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love’s sake only. Do not say
“I love her for her smile—her look—her way
Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day”—
For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity’s wiping my cheeks dry,—
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love’s sake, that evermore
Thou mayst love on, through love’s eternity.
The speaker asks for a love that does not depend on surface charms or passing moods. It is a poem about wanting to be remembered and loved for the deepest reason. True love, permanence, sincerity, and emotional security. Earnest, graceful, and serious. It fits thinking of you love poems because it gives readers a deeper way to say: think of me beyond the surface.
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How Do I Love Thee
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
This famous sonnet measures love through daily need, spiritual depth, memory, grief, and hope. It is direct but still deeply layered. Devotion, spiritual love, daily affection, and lasting commitment. Grand, sincere, and intimate. This is ideal for thinking of you poems for him or her when the message needs to feel complete and lasting.
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Monna Innominata: I Loved You First
I loved you first: but afterwards your love
Outsoaring mine, sang such a loftier song
As drowned the friendly cooings of my dove.
Which owes the other most? my love was long,
And yours one moment seemed to wax more strong;
I loved and guessed at you, you construed me
And loved me for what might or might not be—
Nay, weights and measures do us both a wrong.
For verily love knows not “mine” or “thine”;
With separate “I” and “thou” free love has done,
For one is both and both are one in love:
Rich love knows nought of “thine that is not mine”;
Both have the strength and both the length thereof,
Both of us, of the love which makes us one.
This poem compares two loves and then rejects the idea that love can be measured. The beloved and the speaker become united through shared feeling. Mutual love, unity, devotion, and emotional equality. Thoughtful, tender, and devotional. It fits romantic thinking of you poems when the reader wants language about two hearts feeling joined. The poem uses clear images to make private feeling visible. These images help the reader feel distance, tenderness, or longing without forcing the emotion.
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