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21 Poems About Mistakes, Regret and Second Chances in Life

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The Pulley

By George Herbert

When God at first made man,
Having a glass of blessings standing by;
Let us (said he) pour on him all we can:
Let the world’s riches, which dispersed lie,
Contract into a span.

So strength first made a way;
Then beauty flowed, then wisdom, honour, pleasure:
When almost all was out, God made a stay,
Perceiving that alone of all his treasure
Rest in the bottom lay.

For if I should (said he)
Bestow this jewel also on my creature,
He would adore my gifts instead of me,
And rest in Nature, not the God of Nature:
So both should losers be.

Yet let him keep the rest,
But keep them with repining restlessness:
Let him be rich and weary, that at least,
If goodness lead him not, yet weariness
May toss him to my breast.

Overview Short Summary

Herbert’s poem treats restlessness as part of the human condition. It fits mistakes-and-life-lessons keywords because it shows how comfort can become a mistake when it makes people forget deeper purpose.

Core Ideas Main Themes

  • Wrong priorities: The creature might adore gifts instead of the giver.
  • Restlessness: Weariness becomes a corrective force.
  • Life lesson: A lack of rest may push the soul back toward what matters.

Emotional Effect Tone and Mood

The tone is thoughtful, theological, and gently corrective. The mood is reflective because human weakness is given a purpose.

Literary Technique Imagery and Symbols

The glass of blessings, strength, beauty, wisdom, rest, weariness, and pulley-like motion symbolize a hidden moral design.

Poetic Form Rhyme Scheme and Structure

The poem’s argument is built around a single conceit: rest withheld to draw the soul back.

Repentance

By George Herbert

Lord, I confesse my sinne is great;
Great is my sinne. Oh! gently treat
With thy quick flow’r, thy momentanie bloom;
Whose life still pressing
Is one undressing,
A steadie aiming at a tombe.

Mans age is two houres work, or three:
Each day doth round about us see.
Thus are we to delights: but we are all
To sorrows old,
If life be told
From what life feeleth, Adams fall.

O let thy height of mercy then
Compassionate short-breathed men.
Cut me not off for my most foul transgression:
I do confesse
My foolishnesse;
My God, accept of my confession.

Sweeten at length this bitter bowl,
Which thou hast pour’d into my soul:
Thy wormwood turn to health, windes to fair weather:
For if thou stay,
I and this day,
As we did rise, we die together.

When thou for sinne rebukest man,
Forthwith he waxeth wo and wan:
Bitternesse fills our bowels; all our hearts
Pine and decay,
And drop away,
And carrie with them th’ other parts.

But thou wilt sinne and grief destroy;
That so the broken bones may joy,
And tune together in a well-set song,
Full of his praises,
Who dead men raises.
Fractures well cur’d make us more strong.

Overview Short Summary

This poem is about confession after wrongdoing. It fits poems about mistakes and forgiveness because the speaker admits foolishness, asks mercy, and hopes brokenness can become strength.

Core Ideas Main Themes

  • Confession: The speaker openly admits sin and foolishness.
  • Forgiveness: The poem asks for mercy and healing.
  • Growth after mistakes: The final line says well-cured fractures can make us stronger.

Emotional Effect Tone and Mood

The tone is humble, pleading, and hopeful. The mood moves from bitterness to healing.

Literary Technique Imagery and Symbols

The flower, tomb, bitter bowl, wormwood, weather, broken bones, and song symbolize human frailty and restoration.

Poetic Form Rhyme Scheme and Structure

The poem’s religious language frames mistakes as something that can be confessed, healed, and transformed.

Self-condemnation

By George Herbert

Thou who condemnest Jewish hate,
For choosing Barabbas a murderer
Before the Lord of glorie;
Look back upon thine own estate,
Call home thine eye (that busie wanderer)
That choice may be thy storie.

He that doth love, and love amisse
This worlds delights before true Christian joy,
Hath made a Jewish choice:
The world an ancient murderer is;
Thousands of souls it hath and doth destroy
With her enchanting voice.

He that hath made a sorrie wedding
Between his soul and gold, and hath preferr’d
False gain before the true,
Hath done what he condemnes in reading:
For he hath sold for money his deare Lord,
And is a Judas-Jew.

Thus we prevent the last great day,
And judge our selves. That light, which sin & passion
Did before dimme and choke,
When once those snuffes are ta’ne away,
Shines bright and cleare, ev’n unto condemnation,
Without excuse or cloke.

Overview Short Summary

Herbert’s poem warns against condemning others while ignoring one’s own choices. It fits guilt-and-mistakes keywords because the speaker asks the reader to look back at the self.

Core Ideas Main Themes

  • Self-awareness: The poem tells the reader to call home the wandering eye.
  • Hypocrisy: Condemning others can hide similar mistakes in ourselves.
  • Wrong choices: False gain and worldly delight are shown as destructive preferences.

Emotional Effect Tone and Mood

The tone is stern, searching, and moral. The mood is serious because self-judgment removes excuses.

Literary Technique Imagery and Symbols

The wandering eye, false wedding, gold, light, snuff, and cloak symbolize self-deception and exposure.

Poetic Form Rhyme Scheme and Structure

The poem uses direct address to turn judgment back toward the reader.

The Man He Killed

By Thomas Hardy

Had he and I but met
By some old ancient inn,
We should have sat us down to wet
Right many a nipperkin!

But ranged as infantry,
And staring face to face,
I shot at him as he at me,
And killed him in his place.

I shot him dead because—
Because he was my foe,
Just so: my foe of course he was;
That’s clear enough; although

He thought he’d ‘list, perhaps,
Off-hand like—just as I—
Was out of work—had sold his traps—
No other reason why.

Yes; quaint and curious war is!
You shoot a fellow down
You’d treat if met where any bar is,
Or help to half-a-crown.

Overview Short Summary

Hardy’s poem explores a devastating human mistake made inside the machinery of war. The speaker realizes the man he killed might have been a companion under different circumstances.

Core Ideas Main Themes

  • Wrong choices: The killing is justified by the label “foe,” but the speaker’s reasoning collapses.
  • Regret and confusion: The repeated “because” reveals uncertainty.
  • Life lesson: The poem shows how systems can push ordinary people into terrible actions.

Emotional Effect Tone and Mood

The tone is conversational, uneasy, and ironic. The mood is troubling because a casual voice describes a fatal mistake.

Literary Technique Imagery and Symbols

Inn, drink, infantry, foe, traps, bar, and half-a-crown contrast ordinary friendship with war.

Poetic Form Rhyme Scheme and Structure

The simple ballad-like structure makes the moral contradiction sharper.

To a Mouse

By Robert Burns

Wee, sleekit, cow’rin, tim’rous beastie,
O, what a panic’s in thy breastie!
Thou need na start awa sae hasty,
Wi’ bickering brattle!
I wad be laith to rin an’ chase thee,
Wi’ murd’ring pattle!

I’m truly sorry man’s dominion
Has broken Nature’s social union,
An’ justifies that ill opinion,
Which makes thee startle
At me, thy poor, earth-born companion,
An’ fellow-mortal!

I doubt na, whyles, but thou may thieve;
What then? poor beastie, thou maun live!
A daimen-icker in a thrave
‘S a sma’ request:
I’ll get a blessin wi’ the lave,
An’ never miss’t!

Thy wee-bit housie, too, in ruin!
Its silly wa’s the win’s are strewin!
An’ naething, now, to big a new ane,
O’ foggage green!
An’ bleak December’s winds ensuin,
Baith snell an’ keen!

Thou saw the fields laid bare an’ waste,
An’ weary Winter comin fast,
An’ cozie here, beneath the blast,
Thou thought to dwell,
Till crash! the cruel coulter past
Out thro’ thy cell.

That wee-bit heap o’ leaves an’ stibble,
Has cost thee monie a weary nibble!
Now thou’s turn’d out, for a’ thy trouble,
But house or hald,
To thole the Winter’s sleety dribble,
An’ cranreuch cauld!

But Mousie, thou art no thy-lane,
In proving foresight may be vain:
The best-laid schemes o’ mice an’ men
Gang aft agley,
An’ lea’e us nought but grief an’ pain,
For promis’d joy!

Still thou art blest, compar’d wi’ me!
The present only toucheth thee:
But Och! I backward cast my e’e,
On prospects drear!
An’ forward, tho’ I canna see,
I guess an’ fear!

Overview Short Summary

Burns’ poem begins with a farmer accidentally destroying a mouse’s home. It fits poems about mistakes in life because even ordinary actions can harm another creature and break our plans.

Core Ideas Main Themes

  • Unintended mistakes: The speaker did not mean to ruin the mouse’s home.
  • Broken plans: The famous line says the best-laid schemes often go wrong.
  • Compassion: The speaker recognizes the mouse as a fellow mortal.

Emotional Effect Tone and Mood

The tone is apologetic, tender, and reflective. The mood is sympathetic because the mistake leads to compassion.

Literary Technique Imagery and Symbols

Mouse, ruined house, December winds, cruel plough, leaves, winter, and broken plans symbolize accidental harm and uncertainty.

Poetic Form Rhyme Scheme and Structure

The Scots dialect gives the poem warmth and immediacy.

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